POLYGAMY: A CONSPIRACY AGAINST AN ACT GOD NEVER DISAPPROVES... THE GOOD AND THE BAD

Oba Tejuoso and his beautiful wives

Polygamy today is a subject that has generated serious argument and controversy, what is God's stand on polygamy and monogamy, the issues of many unmarried ladies around, what is the cause and way out...this piece explains it all...

                                 POLYGAMY! POLYGAMY!! POLYGAMY!!!

You will all agree with me that one of the most controversial words in Christiandom today is *POLYGAMY*

Are you a religious scholar? a Pastor? a Theologian? or a born again Christian?.......? Please, feel free to constructively contribute, castigate, correct, admonish, advice or preach........in accordance with the provisions of the Holy Bible (the word of God)

Before I go further,  I will like you to have the following questions at the back of your mind.

1). Who was the first person to engage in the act of POLYGAMY?

2). Is POLYGAMY a sin?

3). Did God condemn POLYGAMY?

4). Those that engaged in POLYGAMY, are they in Hell?

5). What is the fate of the polygamous Children?

6). Is marriage a traditional act or religious act?

7). Why do Christians condemn POLYGAMY?

8). What are the effects of POLYGAMY in Christiandom?

9). Has God changed?

*GEAR 1*

Lamech was the first man to marry more than one wife, Gen 4:19

*GEAR 2*

Godly/Holy persons that engaged in POLYGAMY according to the Bible included

*Abdon*, Judges 12:13-14; *Abijah*, 2 Chronicles 13-21; *Abraham*, Gen 16-1-3, Gen 25:1; *Ahab*, 1 Kings 20:1-3; *Ahaseurus*, Esther 1:9, *Ashur*, 1 Chronicles 4:5, *Belshazzar,* Daniel 5:2, *Ben-Hadad* (who married  Ahab's wives), *Caleb,* 1 Chronicles 2:18-19, *David* (had 8wives), 1 Samuel 18:27, 25:39, 25:42, 2 Samuel 3:5, 5:13, 12:7-8, 12:24. *Eliphaz*, Gen 36:11-12. *Elkanah*, 1 Samuel 1:1-2

*Esau*, Gen 26:34

Ezra, 4:17-18; *Gideon*, Judges 8:30....and  many more.

We had no fewer than 40 Godly and ungodly men that engaged in POLYGAMY from the Bible. Also, we had not less than 43 POLYGAMY cases from the Bible.

Governor Yahyah Bello and his wives

*GEAR 3*

Had God condemned POLYGAMY?

*No! God NEVER did* In all the POLYGAMY cases mentioned  in the Bible, God did not condemn any except David who snatched Uriah's wife. God said to David ' in 2 Samuel 12:8; *I gave your master's house to you, and your master's wives into your arms. I gave you the house of Israel and Judah. And if all this had been too little, I would have given you even more."* 

Why did God himself say so to David? 

*GEAR 4*

Is POLYGAMY a sin?

Those that engaged in POLYGAMY are they in hell?

Is Abraham in hell? (Luke 16:19-31)

Is Jacob in hell?

Are David, Solomon, Elkanah, Ezra.....@all, in hell?

*GEAR 5*

Does God permit POLYGAMY? *The answer of course is YES!*  In Genesis 21:10, God said *If he (man) marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights*. In 2 Samuel 12:8. God Himself said to David ,"...I gave your master Wives,........if you need more,  I would have given you"

*GEAR 6*

What is the fate of the polygamous children? Condemned or

Favoured?

Why was Joseph, Samuel, Solomon.... Highly favoured?

*GEAR 7*.

Before religion there was marriage.

A large family

Gen 1:26-28, Gen 2:18-25

The issue of Monogamy was purely *the tradition of the western world who were our religious colonial masters. In the land of the White, traditionally, rivalry is a taboo*. But the Jews (Israelites) and the Edomites (the blacks) share the same or similar traditions. A widow is not allowed to be seen in the Street, but be remarried to their husband's relatives or friends, Gen 38.

*GEAR 8*

Why do Christians condemn POLYGAMY?

The new testament completely responded seamlessly on POLYGAMY matters. The new testament talks about every aspect of Christian living except POLYGAMY. Mathew 19:3-9, Jesus spoke about God’s initial plan for man. He condemned divorce but did not condemn POLYGAMY. Paul’s admonishment to Timothy on how to elect Church leadership, just like the case of Levites of old (Moses...), 1 Timothy 3.  The point of contention here is,  If there were no men with more than a wife in the Church, Paul Won't have mentioned it. Also in 1 Corinthians 7:39.

*GEAR 9*

Effects of POLYGAMY:

POLYGAMY has it merits and demerits in the society and Christiandom at large.

1). In the Society, the Maternal Mortality rate is high in the female folks compared to men. The number of girl's birth rate is higher than that of men, and the number of men's death rate is higher than that of women. The number of widows keep increasing geometrically adding up to the number of single women in the society.

This leads to an increase of infidelity, adultery, and fornication in society compared to the days of our forefathers. It is so pathetic nowadays to see our single girls fighting with widows for the ownerships of a guy.

An African man with his wives

 2). Religiously, the so-called MONOGAMY has caused more harm than good in Christian-dom. God says in Gen 1:28 'God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air and over every living creature that moves on the ground'. But what do we have today? Christians going into family planning. The Israelites lived 430yrs only in Egypt, but Pharaoh became scared because of their rapid growth in population. I can't imagine if they were practicing Family planning and Monogamy.

IBB introduced family planning to Nigeria with a maximum of 3 children to a couple and, was widely embraced mostly by Christians, that is 3 children to a couple but, Muslim being naturally polygamy has an average 2 to 4 wives to a man, meaning 20 children to a family. This has invariably led to an increase in the population of Muslims far above their Christian counterparts in Nigeria (60% / 40%).

Looking critically, Nigeria is trailing the path of Turkey and North Sudan.....

Turkey (the biblical Antioch) was a Christian nation overtaken by Muslims because of the falsehood of Christian priests.

b.) Very soon our children, particularly daughters (that we are trying to protect today) will be used as sex slaves because monogamy denied them an opportunity to marry.

C.) There are millions of stranded women in the South and, may not likely get a husband forever because of the arguments against polygamy; whereas hardly can a woman be stranded in the North; thanks to polygamy there.

GEAR 10

Has God Changed?

God of Adam, Abraham,    Isaac, Jacob, .....the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, is the beginning and the end, the Alfa and Omega, He is the same yesterday, today and forever;  has not changed

CONCLUSION

What is the way out?

Christians don't be "Paul when he was Saul'

Pastors, be careful what you preach on the pulpit about POLYGAMY as what you preach, instead of becoming light, rather, it is destroying Christianity

Hosea 4:6, 4:6 my people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. "Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you as my priests; because you have ignored the laws of your God, I also will ignore your children.

*HE WHO HAS EARS, LET HIM HEAR*

Forwarded as received, *I need not be crucified as a religious bigot*.

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